Rebecca Demers
Live Loved
Movement
Helping women live loved
Encouraging women to move from striving to belonging, and to experience the transforming love of God.
Live Loved
My heart is to lead women out of striving and into belonging — into a relationship with God where love is the foundation, not performance.
For the woman who is tired of performing
There’s a Place of Rest for You
This isn’t about trying harder or achieving more. It’s about laying down the pressure to perform and allowing God to remind you who you already are: His beloved.
Its all about
Intimacy
Faith is the starting point, but intimacy is the invitation. The Father calls you to know His heart and walk with Him in the small, ordinary moments. Transformation begins in closeness with Jesus.
Let truth speak to your heart
Be Encouraged
Watch these moments of encouragement and let God’s love wash over the tired, pressured, “I should be more” parts of your heart.
Learning to live as a
loved daughter of the king
Live Loved
This book was written from my own journey of letting go of striving and learning to live from God’s love. It’s not about “doing faith better.” It’s about belonging.
Meet Rebecca
Rebecca is a passionate follower of Jesus with a heart to see women set free from lies and rooted in the love of God. She writes and speaks with honesty and vulnerability from her own journey of healing, identity, and learning to walk with God through both the beauty and the breaking.She has served as a youth pastor and holds a Master of Theological Studies from McMaster University. Her heart for missions has led her across the world — including a year in Cambodia working with children, youth, and young adults — always with a desire to share God’s love and see lives transformed.When she’s not working, Rebecca is most often reading a good book, spending quiet time with the Lord, or out on one of her walks. She also enjoys crafting, hunting for unique treasures, and relaxing with her husband.She lives in Stratford, Ontario with her husband Rob. Together, they run a gluten-free bakery, Becky D’s Gluten Free Bake Shoppe, creating safe, allergen-friendly treats. Rob is also a musician — feel free to explore his work below.
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Not achieved. Not earned.
Your Identity Is Found in Christ Alone.
Your worth is not defined by what you do, how much you achieve, or who accepts you. Your identity isn’t earned — it’s received.God calls you chosen. Loved. Redeemed. His. Not because of your perfection, but because of His grace.
If you already know Jesus, may these truths remind you of who you are in Him.If you’re still exploring faith or you’re unsure who Jesus is — you’re welcome here. He’s not asking you to have it all figured out. He just invites you to come as you are.
You Are:
loved
“I have loved you with an everlasting love; I have drawn you with unfailing kindness.”
~ Jeremiah 31:3 ~
Before you were formed, before you believed, before you performed — you were already loved.
chosen
“You did not choose me, but I chose you.”
~ John 15:16 ~
You are not an accident. You were intentionally chosen by God — on purpose, for a purpose.
redeemed
“In Him we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of sins…”
~ Ephesians 1:7 ~
Your past doesn’t disqualify you.
God isn’t ashamed of your story. Instead, He redeems it.
secure
“Nothing can separate us from the love of God.”
~ Romans 8:38–39 ~Your security isn’t based on your consistency, or how you perform. It rests on His faithfulness.
enough
“My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.”
~ 2 Corinthians 12:9 ~
You don’t have to be strong enough, perfect enough, or put-together enough. His grace fills the gaps.
Intimacy With Jesus
You were created for relationship with God.
Not performing for Him.
Not trying to be worthy of Him.
Simply knowing Him.
Delight
Enjoy His Presence
“Delight yourself in the Lord, and He will give you the desires of your heart.”
Psalm 37:4Delighting in God isn’t effort, it’s enjoyment. It looks like worship, gratitude, laughter, awe, and letting your heart rest in His goodness. He delights in you first… and when you delight in Him, your heart becomes aligned with His.
Seek
Pursue His Heart
“You will seek Me and find Me when you search for Me with all your heart.”
Jeremiah 29:13Seeking God isn’t chasing something distant. It’s simply turning your attention toward Him. Open Scripture with a simple prayer: “Jesus, show me who You are.” He reveals Himself to those who seek Him.
Abide
Stay Close
“Remain in Me, and I will remain in you.”
John 15:4Abiding is not visiting God. It is living with Him. Taking Him into the ordinary moments: the errands, the kitchen sink, the car ride. Presence becomes the foundation of every step.
Intimacy begins with awareness of His nearness. He is closer than you think.
Who is Jesus?
Jesus is not just a historical figure, a religious leader, or a good teacher.Jesus is God in human flesh. He came to reveal the Father’s heart to us. He stepped into our broken world not to condemn us, but to rescue us. He lived the perfect, sinless, holy life we could not live, a
and then He offered His life in our place, taking on Himself the consequences of our sin so we could be forgiven, restored, and brought back into relationship with God.Jesus didn’t come to give us a religion to follow. He came to give us life—real, abundant, eternal life.
He came so we could know God personally, not just know about Him, a He loves you more deeply and more personally than you can imagine.
An Invitation to Know Jesus
If you have never made the decision to follow Jesus—to surrender your life to Him and make Him Lord—I want to invite you to do that today. It’s the best decision I have ever made, and I believe it could be for you too.Jesus loves you. He is for you. He gave everything to rescue you and bring you into relationship with Him.Romans 3:23 tells us that all of us have sinned and fall short of the glory of God. Sin isn’t just big things—it’s anything that separates us from God. It shows up in pride, selfishness, fear, or even trying to do life on our own. But the good news is, we don’t have to stay stuck there.Romans 6:23 says, “For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.”And Romans 5:8 reminds us, “But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”Jesus gave His life for you—not because you have it all together, but because He loves you right where you are.Romans 10:9 says, “If you declare with your mouth, ‘Jesus is Lord,’ and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.”If your heart is saying yes to Him, here’s a simple prayer you can pray:Jesus, I need You. I believe You died for my sins and rose again. I confess that I have gone my own way, and I ask for your forgiveness. Today I surrender my life to You. Be my Lord and Saviour. Fill me with Your love, Your truth, and Your Holy Spirit. Help me walk in Your ways. I receive Your forgiveness and Your grace. Thank You for loving me. In Jesus’s name. Amen.If you prayed that prayer, welcome to the family of God! I encourage you to get connected to a Bible-believing church, find other people who believe in Jesus and will encourage and walk with you, and start reading the Bible—begin in the book of John to learn more about Jesus and His incredible love for you.
Jesus, I need You.
I believe You died for my sins and rose again. I confess that I have gone my own way, and I ask for your forgiveness. Today I surrender my life to You. Be my Lord and Saviour. Fill me with Your love, Your truth, and Your Holy Spirit. Help me walk in Your ways. I receive Your forgiveness and Your grace. Thank You for loving me.
In Jesus’s name. Amen.
If you prayed that prayer, welcome to the family of God! I encourage you to get connected to a Bible-believing church, find other people who believe in Jesus and will encourage and walk with you, and start reading the Bible—begin in the book of John to learn more about Jesus and His incredible love for you.
Live Loved
Learning to live as loved daughters of the king
A heartfelt invitation to stop striving for approval and start living from a place of belonging—rooted in who God says you are, confident in His love, and free to walk in your purpose.
Does this sound familiar?
If you’ve ever thought:
• “I should be further ahead by now.”
• “I don’t want to disappoint people.”
• “I’ll be lovable when I finally get it together.”…you’re not alone.Imagine waking up without the pressure to perform.Imagine believing — deep in your bones — that you are enough.Imagine living from God’s love instead of trying to earn it.
About the Book
You don’t have to earn love. You already have it.Live Loved is a Christian spiritual-growth book for women who are exhausted from striving, pleasing, and performing. If insecurity, perfectionism, or shame have ever whispered “you’re not enough,” this book offers a new way to live—rooted in your identity as God’s beloved daughter.Through personal stories, biblical truth, and simple guided reflection, Rebecca Demers invites you to slow down and let God rewrite the narrative over your life. Each chapter includes space to process what you’re learning, reflect on God’s truth, and talk to Him honestly—so you don’t just read about His love, you begin to live from it.This isn’t about trying harder.
It’s about finally resting in the love that has already been given to you.
What You’ll Experience
In these pages, you’ll be invited to:
• Move from striving to resting in God’s grace
• Exchange lies for truth that brings peace and freedom
• Quiet the voice of shame and self-rejection
• Create space for emotional + spiritual rest
• Walk with courage, confidence, and purpose as God’s beloved
Thanks For Your Message
Thank you for reaching out. I read every message and will respond as soon as I can, though response times may vary depending on my schedule.In the meantime, know that you are loved and seen by God.